June at a glance...

I have been a real slacker lately with the blog scene but determined to get caught up today with what's been going on. I have this real fear of losing my memory someday and therefore believe in journaling with a passion yet lately I've just gotten really behind. I think it has to do with a quote I heard in a talk today at church given by Brother Miller which says, "LIFE is what happens to us when we are planning something else." How true, how true. Sorry if I bore anyone with minor details but since I use this as part of my personal journal I'm going to do some catching up with the month with details about what LIFE has been like at our home...

June has been a good month, just hot, hot, hot the past week! Temperatures in the triple digits is just a bit too warm for me but I tried to make the best of it by hanging out at the neighbor's pool at few times (thanks Shane and Michelle!) and spending some time with family and friends. Addi and Kayla enjoyed the slip-n-slide one hot afternoon while I was in the pool. They were playing so silly and laughing so hard! It was great watching them have such fun and to hear their giggling!

Addison has had a busy month and a very fun one. She spent the 9th through the 13th of June at Girls' Camp with the Young Women as a YCL (youth leader) and had a blast! She and Kelsey were a part of some pranks that were pretty mischievous but I guess it wouldn't be camp without those moments! (I'm kinda glad I was NOT there this year -- especially since one prank involved a snake by Kelsey and I would've been a prime target since I'm pretty scaredy!) They had lots of fun and Addison came home very, very tired. Now Addison has just spent the last full week at BYU-Idaho at EFY (Especially for Youth) and had a blast! She flew out last Sunday, the 21st and spent the night with Erika upon arrival. She got to meet Leighton in person the first time and really loves her. Erika took her to the university the next morning and Addison had a fabulous time for the week. Now she is spending about a week with Erika, Jack, and Leighton and will be home Thursday night. I can hardly wait to see all the pics she's taken and looking forward to "talking" to them tonight on Skype and seeing them all! (This is just the coolest thing in a long time!!! I LOVE SKYPE!!!)

Joey and I have had a wonderful month. We've worked alot but our days off have matched up really well this month and we've done lots of fishing and had some fun time together. We love taking the boat out on Wateree and fishing all the little coves Joey knows so well. I hadn't had much luck catching much the first few times but we took the bream busters this past Thursday and I finally caught just about as much as him. (He always catches more bass than me when we go bass fishing!) It's so fun, though, and something we have a great time doing. We also love eating lunch at Dutchman's Creek - they have the absolute best french fries ever and I'm not even a french fry person! They are so good! (Anything tastes better, too, on the water when you're fishing in my opinion! ha!) Also, we took a mini-vacation for Father's Day to Isle of Palms, one of my most favorite places. I've always enjoyed visiting the IOP County Park and spending the day there - especially when the kids were younger since Ethan's always loved surfing so much. Joey and I had a really amazing time on the beach for the day so much that we decided to make a 2-day vacation of it. We stayed overnight and spent the next day shopping down at the market and had a fabulous lunch at TBonz before driving back to Lugoff. We have so much fun together! Joey can make anything fun -- he is just such a great husband and truly is my best buddy in the world! We laugh so much when we're together and just over the silliest things at times but the important thing is that we truly have fun and that's what counts. I think it was a pretty neat Father's Day getaway for him, too! :) He has surprised me with a trip to the mountains next weekend for our first anniversary and I'm looking way forward to it. We're staying in the same place we spent our honeymoon and he even made all the arrangements -- thanks, Joseph, you're so sweet! I can hardly believe it's been a year already but at times it seems we've always been together...I love him so much!!!

Erika, Jack, and Leighton are doing well and we are just so excited that they're coming here to visit in August and having the baby blessed here at Camden Ward! It will be a wonderful and special celebration and such a homecoming for everyone to meet Leighton. She is so beautiful and I miss her more that I could have ever imagined. It's amazing watching her on the webcam but I want to hold her in person so much I can hardly stand it! I may or may not make it until August 26th -- I just may have to take another trip between now and then if I find a cheap-enough flight! Oh how I love that little baby girl!!!

Ethan is busy working at Redbone Alley and making some decisions about school and stuff for the fall. I am really praying hard that he will make the right decisions and that he will have a desire to attend church regularly and that I can see him more often. I miss him so much, too. We were able to spend some really nice time together last Sunday when I took Addison to Florence to catch her flight and I realize more and more how much I miss him and wand so much for him to do the right thing. He knows right from wrong and has such a great heart. He is so kind and humble, much like my daddy, but right now he's working so many Sundays and is just not attending church or having much connection with family except by phone. I will continue to pray that he will have a change of heart and that he will feel of the Savior's love for him. He is such a good son with so many outstanding qualities and so many talents...

This about sums up the past month. Life is good. Sundays are my favorite days of the year, every year! It's a time to reflect and study and to spend time with those we love, whether in person or in heart. My family is planning to visit later today so that Mom and Dad can see Leighton via the webcam and I look forward to their visit since I didn't go there for lunch today. I missed everyone but I took advantage of the quietness since Joey is working today and it was just Chloe and me. It's been a nice day but now I'm looking forward to Joey coming home soon and a nice evening with him and the family.

Yes, LIFE is GOOD.

Leighton Valencia Maxfield - my first grandchild, how I love you so much already...

My first grandchild, Leighton Valencia Maxfield was born on May 12, 2009 at 11:40 PM Idaho time. She weighed 7 pounds 3 ounces and was 19 1/2 inches long. Jack called me just before she was born and I was able to hear her first cry as she entered this world and my life will never be the same. I will forever cherish that moment. Erika did such a fabulous job taking such good care of herself during her pregnancy and all the way through her entire delivery. Jack is an amazing husband and was by Erika's side during her every move during Leighton's birth. He is an absolute jewel. Jack and Erika are already such wonderful parents to Leighton. I am so thankful for this beautiful miracle who has come into our lives and already has my heart around her finger. She is my precious first grandaughter and I love her more than words can ever explain. And so our story begins, Leighton...Leighton was in the NICU for the first few days due to some fluid in her lungs inhaled during her delivery caused by the hiccups. She came home late on Saturday night, May 16 and I arrived in Idaho on the 18th meeting Leighton for the first time. Yes, it was truly more than love at first sight! She is just beautiful.
No matter where her feet carry her, MicMic will always be there for her.

Leighton sure loves her beautiful mommy! (I quite love her mommy to pieces, too! She was my first little angel!)

Jack is such a wonderful daddy to his angel already. She loves him bunches, too, and lights up when she hears his voice.

Sweet baby girl all snuggled in the blanket from Aunt Tiawanna. It's so cuddly!

Erika asked me early in her pregnancy what I'd want to be called and I've always been "MicMic" to all my nieces, nephews, and now great-nephews ever since Ginger gave me that name. It just seems to fit but I don't care what Leighton decides to call me, just as long as she calls me! :) Erika keeps calling me MicMic to her so I guess we'll see...

She is so alert and has such gorgeous eyes!

How cute is this!? Oh I love her!

We had so many little talks during my visit...

This moment is also one I'll cherish. This was my last night in Rexburg and she fell asleep holding my fingers and would grasp tighter if I tried to get my hand loose. Oh how I did not want to leave you, Leighton.

I wanted to savor every second the last night I was there. I kept her in the room with me and held her most of the night until I had to leave the catch the shuttle to Salt Lake at 5 AM. This feeling is one that is forever etched into my heart.

I had a 4-hour shuttle ride to Salt Lake City, rented a car there for a few hours to do some shopping before leaving, and then boarded the plane headed for home. My heart ached to leave even though I'd missed Joey terribly and had so much going on here at home. Addison was graduating in a couple days, I had to get back to work, and Joey and I had not been apart this long since marrying. Even so, a special piece of my heart remained there in Idaho with my precious daughter, son-in-law and beautiful new grandaughter whom I absolutely adore. It seemed like such a long, long way home...I missed you, Leighton, the second I walked out the door of your home and I will be looking forward every day until the next time we are together again. Until then I will be missing you and keeping you in my thoughts and prayer every day. Always know that you are a child of God. You are a precious daughter blessed with parents who love you so much and will teach you things that will help you to become the princess you were born to be. You have been born into a forever family. I love you, Leighton Valencia Maxfield, and I am honored that you have my name. I will not let you down - I will always be here for you no matter how many miles separate us, my heart is with you.

Upon arriving back at the airport in Columbia this is what I came home to -- PaPa Joey welcomed me home with yellow roses in hand and a cold Diet Mountain Dew waiting in the car! He's so good to me! He loves Leighton, too, and she even has hair and a great appetite like Papa Joey's! (so your mommy says, Leighton! Ha!) MicMic's car is small but the carseat fits perfectly in the back seat. I can hardly wait to take you for our first "girls' day out" date to show you off to my peers! I love you, Leighton, so very much! Can't wait til we're together again...

Addison's Graduation Celebrations

Addison's Final Week of High School - It began with our traditional first day / last day of school breakfast out tradition. Joey and I took Addison out to Waffle House (her choice) on her last day that I'd be in town for before leaving for Idaho. We had a yummy breakfast and fun conversation! Then on Saturday night, May 16th we celebrated with a party at our house of about 60 - 75 friends and family members in honor of Addison's accomplishments! It was a very fun night with lots of great food and such fun company. Thanks to all who attended and helped make this such a fun night for Addi! We love you, Addi-Boo!

Next was Addison's Seminary Graduation on Sunday, May 17th. Addison has attended an early morning Seminary class each school day for the past 4 years. From 9th through 12th grade, LDS (The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints) youth attend this class before school each morning at 6:30 AM and study the scriptures. This year there were more than 30 students in Addison's early morning class in Camden which was truly amazing. How awesome to study the scriptures at the beginning of your day and to be taught such lessons from the scriptures and to "arm" your day this way. Addison is so grateful for the seminary program and the knowledge she received from it. What a sacrifice to have gotten up early and attended all four years. During this time she also held a job at Sonic in which she got off really late some nights and still managed to get up early and attend Seminary. She said something was truly missing on the days she had to miss. I am so proud of you, Addison, in this wonderful accomplishment which is to me, more important that your high school graduation. I also appreciate the example of your older brother and sister who also attended and graduated from the Seminary program. What an accomplishment!

Then on Saturday, May 30th at 9:30 AM Addison graduated from high school. Congratulations to all the Class of 2009 and best of luck in all your future plans! This is a whole new chapter about to unfold and with it comes much excitement and also some uncertainty but I know you will do great things, Addison! Pray always, Choose the Right, and put the Lord first and you are destined for great things. Wow - I can't believe this day came so quickly! I am just so thankful to have been a part of this with you. I will miss all the things about school with you, Addi...the "Mom, can you please bring ----- to the school and like really quick?!" calls, the school programs, band stuff, and all that came along with your school years. I will be forever grateful to have been able to go through all this with you as a front seat mom...I wouldn't have missed it for the world!

Following Graduation Exercises we surprised Addison with lunch at "Sumo's" (her favorite) and had an awesome lunch. Our chef was so great and we loved the show. The food was marvelous and Addison seemed to enjoy herself so much! Thank you to Aunt Tiawanna for coming and making it so special. Thanks to Ethan for getting up extra early and making it into the town for the graduation. And finally, a HUGE THANK YOU to my parents and for all their love and support especially to Addison during all her school years. They have been such an extra special support and I am so thankful they all they've done for not only Addison, but for our family in so many different ways. I love you all with all my heart!

Yikes, yippee, whooooweeeee!!!!

Tonight I am filled with so many different emotions -- there is sooooooooo much going on but it's all good. First - Erika is being induced tomorrow morning!!! I think it's finally hit me and I'm so excited and yet so torn about where I want to be and where I should be. I'm still not exactly which day I'm leaving for Idaho but I first have to get through this week -- there is much to do here first. How will I ever be able to concentrate on my work tomorrow????? I totally wish I could be Samantha on "Bewitched" (remember that show - my favorite!) and I could twitch my nose and be with Erika and Jack tomorrow for the arrival of my first grandchild...wow, it still seems like a dream. She is in good hands, though, I know that and she will be fine. Ethan leaves Idaho Wednesday morning so he'll be there and he can tell me all about it Wednesday night when I pick him up from the airport. Addison's Seminary Dinner is Thursday night, our Graduation Party for her is Saturday night, and Seminary Graduation is Sunday evening. By the way, did I mention I work the next 3 days from 7 AM til 7 PM and Addi and I have 2 softball games yet this week?!?! This is most definetely a full week! Lots of exciting things going on and wow, can you believe it -- I am going to be a grandmother -- and like...TOMORROW!!!!!

Happy Mother's Day!

It has been a wonderful Mother's Day weekend at our house. I have been treated like a princess by my wonderful husband and family with all sorts of surprises all weekend long. Today the lessons at church were so special and then we spent time with our families the remainder of the day. It was so fun.

I am so thankful for my mother who gave me life and brought us up in a warm and loving Christian home. I am grateful that she taught us lessons and even that she was strict and expected only the best from us. We always knew we were so loved and that she was always behind us and wanted only the right thing for us. Our mom continues to do so much for our family and we love her so very much. Happy Mother's Day, Mom...you are amazing!

I am also thankful for Joey's mom and the wonderful person she is. Joey is the person he is because of a loving mom and dad who also brought him up in a loving Christian home.

My sister, Tiawanna, and my niece, Ginger, are also very special mothers to me. My sister was like my 2nd mother you could say because she was 9 years old when I was born and she has always watched out for me. I love her so much and wish I could repay her for all she has done for me...I love you, T! Ginger is an amazing mom and I learn so much from her example. She seems more like my younger sister than niece I think because I was 13 when she was born and being the baby in my family she was like a real-life doll to me and I love her so much. She is an incredible young woman and I am so thankful for her. Happy Mother's Day, Tiawanna and Ginger, you are both so special to me.

Lastly, I am so thankful for the mother of my soon-to-be first grandchild. My daughter, Erika, is an exceptional young woman also with so many wonderful qualities. She is beautiful and strong and determined in life. She is such an example to me and I am so thankful to be her mother. Thank you, Erika, for all you mean to me and for the blessing you are and always have been in my life. I love you with all my heart and I am so excited about the baby. I love her so much already. Have a wonderful week and get lots of rest while you can...Happy Mother's Day to the greatest any-day-now-mother-to-be in the universe! I love you!

There are so many other mothers who have influenced my life in so many ways and I am so grateful for each one. Thank you, thank you, thank you. May the Lord bless all the mothers of the world...

Happy 21st Birthday, Ethan!

Ethan Ellis David Chandler
Born Saturday, May 7, 1988 at 8:09 PM

Castle Medical Center

Kailua, Hawaii

8 pounds 9 ounces

Ethan joins a sister, Erika Lindsay (17 months)

You are a wonderful son, Ethan, and I love you with all my heart. You have been such a blessing in my life and I am so grateful for all the happiness you have brought to me as your mother. I hope you have a wonderful birthday in Idaho with Erika and Jack and most of all, I hope this year will be your best and happiest year yet! Always remember who you are and you will go so far in life. I love you forever, son...

Happy Birthday!

Love, Mom

Spring has sprung!

What an absolutely beautiful day it was today! The sun has shone brilliantly and everything looks so green and lush right now -- I love the sights of spring. The temperature is another story but I'm appreciating the beauty and wonderful air-conditioning. It seems the older I get the less I enjoy the hot weather but I do love the pretty sights and sounds of this time of year when everything is beginning to bloom and the birds are singing loudly. It is a great time of year! Joey and I were sitting underneath the back patio one evening last week and he'd been noticing this little bird working hard gathering straw and sticks and taking them ever so carefully when he was still underneath the eave of the patio. Now there's a precious nest built under the corner of the patio that will be neat to watch what happens next...

Yes, spring has sprung. And to those including my family with allergies -- my sympathies to you but hopefully we're seeing the last of the pollen. This time of year is such a busy time and that has been the state of our household -- BUSY! It's a good thing, though. These are a few highlights and thoughts from this past week:

**First, Daddy is feeling better and his foot is much better. He's been suffering with gout in his left foot resulting in lots of pain and elevated blood pressure. I've been really concerned because he's not one to slow down or ever complain but was obviously in much pain. He's doing much better the past few days and I'm so grateful.

**Addison and I are playing softball for the Ridgeway Ward LDS Softball team through the KC Rec. Dept. and looking forward to a fun season. I had so much fun playing last year and thrilled that Addi is playing this year, too. Ginger is also playing and we'll miss Jenny this season but hopefully she'll be back next year after the baby's born! Go Team!!!

Speaking of ball, congrats to Wesley and the LE Varsity Baseball Team who won their Region Championship baseball game on Friday night! :) It was also Senior Night and probably a tough night for his parents, Bubba and Karen. Wesley pitches for the team and is an excellent ball player. He had a big fan club there for the game Friday night! Ginger and Shaun took the boys to watch the game -- Spencer, Andrew, and Carson LOVE Wesley! Way to go, Wes, and best of luck in the playoffs.

**Ethan is going out to visit Erika and Jack on the 6th of May. His 21st birthday is on the 7th and Joey and I gave him a trip to Idaho for his birthday and he'll spend 7 days there. Erika and Jack are really excited, too, and Erika already has plans for Ethan to help Jack put together a shed they've bought. They'll have a great time and who knows -- Ethan just might meet Leighton before I do if Erika goes into labor while he's there!!!

**Speaking of Erika and Jack -- only 3 weeks from today until their due date! I am so excited and hoping she has a smooth delivery. Unless there are complications I'm not going out until the first week of June after graduation...I'm looking so very forward to being a grandmother!

**There's just over a month until Addison's graduation and it's a very exciting time for her. As for me -- I'm having a bit of a hard time since she's my last to graduate...She is such a great daughter and an awesome student. Addi is so compassionate and truly loves her entire family with all her being. I am so proud of her and I know she will make the right decisions about her future and it will be bright one. I love you, Addi!

**Joey is just amazing, too. He is such a wonderful loving husband and is my best friend! I can't imagine life without him. He is so supportive of anything I do and respects my beliefs and believes in all my dreams. (probably more than I do!) He does the neatest surprises and just when I least expect them. Last week we had 4 full days together while we were off work and we went fishing and did all sorts of neat chores together. It seems the more we're together the better and better things get. I am so grateful for him and for second chances... Sometimes we both laugh and Joey will say, "Can you believe it's really me and you again?" and it's almost like all those years didn't pass in between when we were 18 and sweethearts and now. Life is grand!

**As for me, I'm enjoying my work at the hospital but still have this burning desire to do more than I'm doing and to do something that truly makes a difference. I'm excited to begin volunteering for the Guardian ad Litem program through the Governor's Office -- it is an excellent program. I've been working on a couple of other projects and trying to make some decisions regarding which avenue to take...There is much to do and if we want to see changes we have to be willing to step up and speak out. It begins with one voice...

I'm looking forward to a great week this week. We have plans to take the sister missionaries out to San Jose' tomorrow night and then begin my work week on Tuesday. We have ballgames Tuesday and Thursday nights and so by Friday I'll be ready to begin a long weekend! I do love my work schedule -- 3 12-hour days can be really long but I love these 4 day weekends! Have a great week and enjoy this beautiful spring sunshine!